Solving refugee crisis

So Cameron throws more of our aid at the Syrian refugees and the EU wants to do the same.
The solution is to solve why they're leaving Syria. The west can end the conflict and help rebuild the country. Then the people won't want to flee.

Before Refugees can we look after our own?

What do people have to do to qualify for British residency? We let murdering asylum seekers stay because "it would infringe their human rights" yet a lady (Nadiya McWhirter), who has 1, married a British man (I always thought that was automatic if legitimate), 2, got children by him (family?) 3, worked and paid taxes for 10 years yet they want to deport her?
We are happy to give sanctuary to Syrian refugees, and I'm not anti-that but why this lady should be deported?